womanish, effete, foppish, unmanly, feminine
I Corinthians 6:9 is directly associated with being a homosexual and it says that these will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Why do some men become feminine? I do not believe that they are born that way and I know this is true from the experience of having a gay brother in my family. He didn't turn gay until he was twenty-six years old. He was deeply in love with a married woman for two years and she chose to stay with her husband when he came home from the Army. I saw the change in him. His body language first became like a woman's and then his speech as such. I never condemned him but witnessed to him constantly. He moved to another town and there he would live until his death from AIDS at the age of forty-seven. God gives me much grace over his leaving this world without God. I talked with him just a couple of weeks before he died and he got angry, telling me not to preach to him. He died in his living room surrounded by his gay friends. While he was alive he attended a Gay Church of four hundred men, including the Pastor.
I wanted to throw in my two cents worth on the subject of why some men become "effeminate". Divorce would be my first thought. Women raising boys without a father. My second thought would be an over-bearing Mother who worshipped her son and wanted to control his life. Homosexuality has become a sin in this country to the extent that we will have gone way further than Sodom and Gomorrah.
